Yours is the first face that I saw. I swear I was blind before I met you.

“So, it’s not gonna be easy.
It’s gonna be really hard.
We’re gonna have to work at this every day,
but I want to do that because I want you.
I want all of you.
-The Notebook

4 thoughts on “Yours is the first face that I saw. I swear I was blind before I met you.

  1. I know that one of your old boyfriends has a baby and is engaged to a new girl. That recently happened to me with an old boyfriend of 3 years and he won’t even acknowledge me or anything anymore. It really hurts because I know we once meant something to one another. It just tears me apart that he can’t even say hi or reply when I have no intentions with him sexually. We were friends until this new relationship. Do you think what he’s doing is “right” ? I just don’t know what to think anymore about the situation.

    1. One of my old boyfriends has a baby and is engaged? I can only assume you’re speaking about Carrick because I have heard from some people that he does have a baby but I had no idea he was engaged. However, Carrick stopped acknowledging me long before that, because of how badly our relationship ended. In your situation it would appear that everything seemed to end on civil terms between the two of you considering you were able to remain friends after. Then when he got a new relationship he felt it was unfair to his new GF and to you if he were to continue having any communication with you. Either that or his new GF asked him to stop talking to you. In any case, I know it hurts because you two did have something more than just sex, you were friends and and you care about each other. When things go about like this it makes you feel as if it wasn’t more than that because if you were good friends than why couldn’t you still be friends without the suspicion of ulterior sexual motives. In the question of do I think it’s right, no I do not necessarily think it’s right, I think that people should all be able to act like adults and accept things being over and move on and remember that we don’t have a lot of time on this earth, friendship is important whether they’re an ex or not. BUT if it is what he feels needs to be done to make it easier for his new relationship to work than you need to be fair to him and give him a chance to do that. Because that’s what a friend would do. It sucks and it hurts but if you are his friend you want him to be happy even if it means you have to hurt in the process. And if his new relationship doesn’t work out and he comes back to you then you don’t make him feel bad or say “i told you so” or make it about you, you simply be there for him as a friend and maybe try to come to a better understanding so that the next time one of you gets in a relationship the other one doesn’t have to get cut out. Hope this helps!


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